Families Touched by Tragedy Celebrate Thanksgiving
posted 10:23 am Tue November 20, 2007 - Richmond, Va.
It was the Thanksgiving traditions more than the feast that Leslie Sherman treasured. Her family always went to the movies while the turkey cooked; they loved the smell that greeted them when they returned home. The meal was always wolfed down in 10 minutes or less, so Leslie and her dad could rush to the living room to catch the game on TV. Her mother once suggested they simply go to a restaurant, but Leslie was adamant: Thanksgiving had to be a home-cooked meal, eaten together at home.
This year, however, the Springfield, Va., family's traditions will be quietly set aside on their first Thanksgiving since Leslie, 20, was killed in the April 16 Virginia Tech shootings that left 33 dead.
Leslie's parents and sister will go to a relative's house for dinner. Her mother, Holly Sherman, will be polite and eat her meal. She will spend a little time with her family. After that, she may go visit Leslie's grave.
Holly thinks of this and weeps.
She worries about balancing her grief with the celebratory nature of the holiday.
"We don't want to be the symbol of sadness and bring sadness into somebody else's home on an otherwise joyous occasion," she says.
"We'll be forging new territory."
Last week, a co-worker handed her a card. Inside was a quote: "Be courageous. It's one of the only places left uncrowded."
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